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The main components of a Break The Cycle retreat:

  • Self Awareness: observing oneself and recognizing one's feelings; building a vocabulary for feeling; knowing the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and reactions.
  • Personal decision making: examining one's actions and knowing their consequences; knowing if thought or feeling is ruling a decision; applying these insights to issues such as sex, alcohol, or drugs.
  • Personal Responsibility: taking responsibility; recognizing the consequences of one's decisions and actions, accepting one's feelings and moods, following through on commitments (e.g. studying, exercising).
  • Conflict Resolutions: how to resolve problems with others, with parents, with teachers; the win/win model for negotiating compromise.
Schedule of Events
Day One
Session One: Self– Awareness
  “Please Hear What I’m Not Saying” - Small   Group re-flection on common fears, hopes,   feelings and sense of self
Session Two: Self-Responsibility
  Taking charge of Your Life—Participants   discuss and process ways to put their lives   back in order and take charge of their lives
Session Three: Eradicating Fears
  Identifying and taking a closer look at personal   fears that prevent us from being ourselves and   performing at peak levels
Session Four: Character Development
  The importance of accepting one’s self and   taking full
  responsibility for all our choices and actions. Learning to
  identify our personal character flaws and taking the necessary
  steps to eradicate them.
Session Five: Setting Personal Goals
  Making a strong commitment to changing the course of our
  lives, from a path of self-destruction, self-hatred and
  unhappiness to one of responsibility, self-acceptance and
  happiness 
Day Two
Ropes Course 1 Ropes Course 2
  • team work
  • respect
  • listening skills
  • facing fears
  • clear communication
  • cooperation
  • encouragement
  • challenge
  • leadership
  • determination
  • commitment
  • building trust


Talk: Addiction

  “Breaking Chains To Freedom.”  Learning that only by acknowledging and facing our fears, addictions and character defects are we set free of patterns that enslave us and cause harm to ourselves and those who love us.
Session Six: Affirmation
  Strength Bombardment & Personal Goal-Setting. Realizing our unique gifts and talents and   taking concrete, observable and measurable steps to achieving our personal goals.
Talk: "Commitment to Life-Long Change" by a Program Graduate
  This speaker gives his reflection on life’s challenges after the weekend. He highlights the   issues that confronted him with family, friends, and schoolmates upon returning from the   week end and throughout the program. What happens when someone makes a commitment   to change?

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